Talking to your children about consent and sexual violence can be hard. Here’s how to start the conversation

Georgijevic/Getty Images There have been multiple high-profile alleged incidents of sexual violence against women and girls in news headlines this month.

Some of them involve teenage boys .

Families might find themselves having – or thinking they need to have – discussions with their children about consent and sexual violence.

We know parents have an important role to play in teaching their children about respectful sex and healthy relationships – and countering harmful messages they may see online.

But it can be hard to know where to start.

Before initiating the discussion There are a few ways adults can prepare ahead of time.

Research suggests it’s important for parents to feel confident when talking about consent and sexual violence so they can be clear about information and answer questions.

Confidence also leads to better emotional regulation during these conversations.

Ensuring you have a good level of knowledge yourself can support your level of confidence.

Use accurate words instead of euphemisms and, particularly with teenagers, don’t try to soften the discussion by hiding from the realities of violence.

According to the latest Australian Bureau of Statistics data , nearly 30% of all sexual assaults reported to police in 2024 were against girls between 10–17 years old.

The number of sexual assaults recorded nationally in 2024 also increased by 10% from 2023.

Children and teens need to know the facts and risks, and to be in no doubt that their parents will support them through any experience.

How to begin the discussion Families need to have open conversations when it comes to talking to children and young people about misogyny, rape and sexual violence.